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Life Values I Learned from Coach Carter

I'm neither a television-maniac nor a movie-maniac, it this is how you call a person who spend his/her leisure time watching movies, tv programs, and the famous teleseryes.  At a young age, I was trained to refrain from watching television during school days.   I was only allowed on weekends when the shows a too boring for me.  Too sad, I was not able to watch cartoons when I was young.  I don't even know where the Sesame Street is, and who Bart Simpson is.  But things change, I'm slowly becoming a movie-maniac with the influence of my husband who loves watching movies of different genres.

Just last week, I got the luxury of time to watch a really inspirational movie about discipline, motivation, and passion for one's craft.  While my hubby and son are both fast asleep, there I was awake until twelve midnight watching the movie on my mobile phone.  So, what's so intriguing about this movie?


The Story
Coach Carter was released in year 2005.  The story started when Ken Carter took over the coaching job for the Oilers basketball team at Richmond Highschool, where he used to study and play, with unbeaten records, during his younger years.  The team members lack discipline, motivation, and self-respect which is evident on their constant losses.  Ken did not just mentored them on the sports he love, but coached them also on life - living a life of purpose and with decency.  At the start of his coaching job, he offered them a contract that spells a lot of requirements such as the players should sit in front of the class, maintain decent grades and render time for community service apart from the strenuous basketball practice.





Essential Values in Life
Throughout the story, he taught five important values that changed the lives of his students forever:  Discipline, Respect, Teamwork, Courage, and Humility.


Value #1:  Discipline
Ken Carter stood firm despite the objections of everyone (e.g. parents, school staff) on how harsh his rules are.  Even if a lot of people misunderstood him, he still insisted on getting the progress reports of the players to ensure that they do not flounder academically.  Aside from that Ken, imposed on "suicide" and "push-up" to penalize those who report late for practice and those with rude behaviors. A suicide is a running drill while touching down the court in intervals until the exercise is completed on both sides of the court.  While push-up "is a conditioning exercise performed in a prone position by raising and lowering the body with the straightening and bending of the arms while keeping the back straight and supporting the body on the hands and toes" according to Merriam-Webster Dictionary.

Value #2:  Respect
When Ken Carter first met the players, he called them "Sir" which is too unusual as they are not used to being called "Sir."  With their recent losses, they have low self-esteem as much as they have low self-respect and respect with their teammates.  However, according to Ken, he will call them "Sir" as long as they have not lost his respect for them.  Later in the story, the players developed a sense of self-respect and earned the respect of other people around them.

Value #3:  Teamwork
When Timo Cruz decided to rejoin the team, he was penalized with unreasonable numbers of suicides and push-ups on the courtside while his teammates are practicing.  The entire team witnessed how he persevered and pushed himself to the limits that they volunteered to do the other push-ups and suicides just to have him on the team again.

Value #4:  Courage
What is your deepest fear?  This is the question Ken Carter often asks his players.  The question that irritates most of the proud players.  At the climax of the story, when gym's lockout was ended, Ken Carter found the players studying at the basketball court. Here, Timo Cruz answered the question their often asks them:


“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It’s not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”



A scene at the gym, from the movie "Coach Carter"

Value #5:  Humility
Drowned with constant winnings on their basketball games, the players became too proud that they started trash talking during their games.  Such attitude was immediately corrected by Ken Carter.  Though the movie did not end the way typical a storybook ends, Ken Carter's message to the team is moving:


"...you men played like champions.  You never gave up.  And champions hold their heads high.  What you achieved goes way beyond the win-loss column or what's gonna be written on the front page of the sports section tomorrow.  You've achieved something that some people spend their whole lives trying to find.  What you achieved is that ever-elusive victory within.  And, gentlemen... I am so proud of you.  Four months ago, when I took the job at Richmond, I had a plan.  That plan failed.  I came to coach basketball players, and you became students.  I came to teach boys, and you became men.  And for that, I thank you."



It's Not All About Winning
At the end of every battle, of every game, of every story, there is a realization that winning is not the highest peak of our lives.  Indeed, the victory, the win, the reward motivates us through the challenges in our journey.  It is the journey itself - the realization of one's strength on momentary setbacks, the courage gathered amidst the perplexities, and the winning spirit developed within yourself by simply having an end in mind.

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The Turtle Always Wins (the first book I finished reading this 2013)

I'm a firm believer that learning is inexpensive.  You may learn by just being an observant, you may learn something while conversing with a colleague, you may learn while watching the television, you may learn by reading a newspaper… There are a lot of avenues available for us to learn.

At the beginning of this year, I promised myself to commit to continuous learning. Since I love reading books (especially now that I can bring along 25 books all at the same time in the form of ebooks, thanks to technology), I'm devoted to read at least 1 book every month. There is no specific topic in mind, it can be a personality development book, a bible, a cookbook, or a travel guide book.  As long as it interests me, it will surely be used as a tool for learning.

Aside from dedicating my time in reading at least 1 book a month, I also commit to share in this blog whatever lesson I learned from each book.  Simply because I love you guys!  It's my way of saying "thank you" for taking time to visit and read my blogs.

For the month of January, I read this book by Bo Sanchez entitled "The Turtle Always Wins."  I got this book as a gift from Bo Sanchez just this first week of January.   




Basically, the book is about earning millions in stock market.  But, I feel that aside from the stock market, this books tells a lot about financial management.  Here are the 10 lessons I learned in this book:

Lesson #1:  Income does not equal wealth.  It's not how much you earn that makes you wealthy.  It's how much you invest from what you earn that makes you wealthy.  It's not the salary that we receive every payday or the business income that we have that keeps us rich.  It's the money that remains for investment and savings that makes us rich.  Which brings me to below comparison of the monthly salary and savings of Ms. Employee and Inday that raised a lot of eyebrows.




Lesson #2:  It's not ok to borrow just because there is a facility available for us to borrow.  As an employee, I always hear this "Sayang if I won't borrow" statements of people who always renew their SSS loans just to ensure that nobody else will avail the loan for them.  Not thinking of the interest that they have to pay for the money that is not needed but borrowed.

Lesson #3:  If you want to prosper, learn to multiply the little money that you have.  If you retire poor, it's not God's fault.  Again, this remains true to Filipinos' favorite saying, "Nasa Diyos ang awa, nasa tao ang gawa."

Lesson #4:  Anybody can invest - maids, drivers, security guards, entrepreneurs, models, rich, poor, old, young.  Wealth is a choice, neither a coincidence nor a gift.

Lesson #5:  If you can't get rid of helping other people - your relatives, your neighbors, your friends, or the entire barangay, allot an "Alms fund."  Once it runs out, tell the person asking for help that "Right now, I don't have money to help you.  But next month, perhaps I'll have some money again."  Learn to say "no" if needed and never compromise your own savings and your own future for somebody else's financial ignorance and mismanaged income.

Lesson #6:  A lot of things are complicated and so is the stock market.  Never allow these complications to hinder you.  If you keep doing it, sooner or later, it will not be complicated anymore.  Do not be afraid to make mistakes, even if you take risk or not, you are still bound to make mistakes after all.  The key is to study and to take calculated risks - submit yourself to continuous learning.  Get out of your comfort zone!

Lesson #7:  There are four kinds of people in the stock market: the typical trader, the trained trader, the typical investor, and the trained investor.  Follow the turtle's strategy, be the trained investor.  There is no shortcut to success, and also to wealth.  Practice the habit of investing on a regular basis - at good times and bad times.

Lesson #8:  Beware of hot tips or penny stocks.  Beware of people who will tell you to buy certain stocks so that the price will go up.  It is still best to buy stocks from large corporations and big companies. 

Lesson #9:  The six lifestyle principles behind the success of Mr. Turtle:
  1. Turtle lives below his means.
  2. Turtle builds his farm before his house.
  1. Turtle invests his windfalls.
  1. Turtle invests when it's difficult to invest.
  2. Turtle works on cash machines not stocks.
  3. Turtle believes he'll win.

Lesson #10:  Follow Mr. Turtle's Strategic Averaging Method (SAM).  Buy when the price is beneath the "buy below price."  Sell when the price is near the "target price."


Above lessons is just a small part of what the book can offer you.  If you are committed to continuous learning, as I am, I would recommend you to also read the book yourself.

Happy learning!

Mumay


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