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Life Values I Learned from Coach Carter

I'm neither a television-maniac nor a movie-maniac, it this is how you call a person who spend his/her leisure time watching movies, tv programs, and the famous teleseryes.  At a young age, I was trained to refrain from watching television during school days.   I was only allowed on weekends when the shows a too boring for me.  Too sad, I was not able to watch cartoons when I was young.  I don't even know where the Sesame Street is, and who Bart Simpson is.  But things change, I'm slowly becoming a movie-maniac with the influence of my husband who loves watching movies of different genres.

Just last week, I got the luxury of time to watch a really inspirational movie about discipline, motivation, and passion for one's craft.  While my hubby and son are both fast asleep, there I was awake until twelve midnight watching the movie on my mobile phone.  So, what's so intriguing about this movie?


The Story
Coach Carter was released in year 2005.  The story started when Ken Carter took over the coaching job for the Oilers basketball team at Richmond Highschool, where he used to study and play, with unbeaten records, during his younger years.  The team members lack discipline, motivation, and self-respect which is evident on their constant losses.  Ken did not just mentored them on the sports he love, but coached them also on life - living a life of purpose and with decency.  At the start of his coaching job, he offered them a contract that spells a lot of requirements such as the players should sit in front of the class, maintain decent grades and render time for community service apart from the strenuous basketball practice.





Essential Values in Life
Throughout the story, he taught five important values that changed the lives of his students forever:  Discipline, Respect, Teamwork, Courage, and Humility.


Value #1:  Discipline
Ken Carter stood firm despite the objections of everyone (e.g. parents, school staff) on how harsh his rules are.  Even if a lot of people misunderstood him, he still insisted on getting the progress reports of the players to ensure that they do not flounder academically.  Aside from that Ken, imposed on "suicide" and "push-up" to penalize those who report late for practice and those with rude behaviors. A suicide is a running drill while touching down the court in intervals until the exercise is completed on both sides of the court.  While push-up "is a conditioning exercise performed in a prone position by raising and lowering the body with the straightening and bending of the arms while keeping the back straight and supporting the body on the hands and toes" according to Merriam-Webster Dictionary.

Value #2:  Respect
When Ken Carter first met the players, he called them "Sir" which is too unusual as they are not used to being called "Sir."  With their recent losses, they have low self-esteem as much as they have low self-respect and respect with their teammates.  However, according to Ken, he will call them "Sir" as long as they have not lost his respect for them.  Later in the story, the players developed a sense of self-respect and earned the respect of other people around them.

Value #3:  Teamwork
When Timo Cruz decided to rejoin the team, he was penalized with unreasonable numbers of suicides and push-ups on the courtside while his teammates are practicing.  The entire team witnessed how he persevered and pushed himself to the limits that they volunteered to do the other push-ups and suicides just to have him on the team again.

Value #4:  Courage
What is your deepest fear?  This is the question Ken Carter often asks his players.  The question that irritates most of the proud players.  At the climax of the story, when gym's lockout was ended, Ken Carter found the players studying at the basketball court. Here, Timo Cruz answered the question their often asks them:


“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It’s not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”



A scene at the gym, from the movie "Coach Carter"

Value #5:  Humility
Drowned with constant winnings on their basketball games, the players became too proud that they started trash talking during their games.  Such attitude was immediately corrected by Ken Carter.  Though the movie did not end the way typical a storybook ends, Ken Carter's message to the team is moving:


"...you men played like champions.  You never gave up.  And champions hold their heads high.  What you achieved goes way beyond the win-loss column or what's gonna be written on the front page of the sports section tomorrow.  You've achieved something that some people spend their whole lives trying to find.  What you achieved is that ever-elusive victory within.  And, gentlemen... I am so proud of you.  Four months ago, when I took the job at Richmond, I had a plan.  That plan failed.  I came to coach basketball players, and you became students.  I came to teach boys, and you became men.  And for that, I thank you."



It's Not All About Winning
At the end of every battle, of every game, of every story, there is a realization that winning is not the highest peak of our lives.  Indeed, the victory, the win, the reward motivates us through the challenges in our journey.  It is the journey itself - the realization of one's strength on momentary setbacks, the courage gathered amidst the perplexities, and the winning spirit developed within yourself by simply having an end in mind.

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The Turtle Always Wins (the first book I finished reading this 2013)

I'm a firm believer that learning is inexpensive.  You may learn by just being an observant, you may learn something while conversing with a colleague, you may learn while watching the television, you may learn by reading a newspaper… There are a lot of avenues available for us to learn.

At the beginning of this year, I promised myself to commit to continuous learning. Since I love reading books (especially now that I can bring along 25 books all at the same time in the form of ebooks, thanks to technology), I'm devoted to read at least 1 book every month. There is no specific topic in mind, it can be a personality development book, a bible, a cookbook, or a travel guide book.  As long as it interests me, it will surely be used as a tool for learning.

Aside from dedicating my time in reading at least 1 book a month, I also commit to share in this blog whatever lesson I learned from each book.  Simply because I love you guys!  It's my way of saying "thank you" for taking time to visit and read my blogs.

For the month of January, I read this book by Bo Sanchez entitled "The Turtle Always Wins."  I got this book as a gift from Bo Sanchez just this first week of January.   




Basically, the book is about earning millions in stock market.  But, I feel that aside from the stock market, this books tells a lot about financial management.  Here are the 10 lessons I learned in this book:

Lesson #1:  Income does not equal wealth.  It's not how much you earn that makes you wealthy.  It's how much you invest from what you earn that makes you wealthy.  It's not the salary that we receive every payday or the business income that we have that keeps us rich.  It's the money that remains for investment and savings that makes us rich.  Which brings me to below comparison of the monthly salary and savings of Ms. Employee and Inday that raised a lot of eyebrows.




Lesson #2:  It's not ok to borrow just because there is a facility available for us to borrow.  As an employee, I always hear this "Sayang if I won't borrow" statements of people who always renew their SSS loans just to ensure that nobody else will avail the loan for them.  Not thinking of the interest that they have to pay for the money that is not needed but borrowed.

Lesson #3:  If you want to prosper, learn to multiply the little money that you have.  If you retire poor, it's not God's fault.  Again, this remains true to Filipinos' favorite saying, "Nasa Diyos ang awa, nasa tao ang gawa."

Lesson #4:  Anybody can invest - maids, drivers, security guards, entrepreneurs, models, rich, poor, old, young.  Wealth is a choice, neither a coincidence nor a gift.

Lesson #5:  If you can't get rid of helping other people - your relatives, your neighbors, your friends, or the entire barangay, allot an "Alms fund."  Once it runs out, tell the person asking for help that "Right now, I don't have money to help you.  But next month, perhaps I'll have some money again."  Learn to say "no" if needed and never compromise your own savings and your own future for somebody else's financial ignorance and mismanaged income.

Lesson #6:  A lot of things are complicated and so is the stock market.  Never allow these complications to hinder you.  If you keep doing it, sooner or later, it will not be complicated anymore.  Do not be afraid to make mistakes, even if you take risk or not, you are still bound to make mistakes after all.  The key is to study and to take calculated risks - submit yourself to continuous learning.  Get out of your comfort zone!

Lesson #7:  There are four kinds of people in the stock market: the typical trader, the trained trader, the typical investor, and the trained investor.  Follow the turtle's strategy, be the trained investor.  There is no shortcut to success, and also to wealth.  Practice the habit of investing on a regular basis - at good times and bad times.

Lesson #8:  Beware of hot tips or penny stocks.  Beware of people who will tell you to buy certain stocks so that the price will go up.  It is still best to buy stocks from large corporations and big companies. 

Lesson #9:  The six lifestyle principles behind the success of Mr. Turtle:
  1. Turtle lives below his means.
  2. Turtle builds his farm before his house.
  1. Turtle invests his windfalls.
  1. Turtle invests when it's difficult to invest.
  2. Turtle works on cash machines not stocks.
  3. Turtle believes he'll win.

Lesson #10:  Follow Mr. Turtle's Strategic Averaging Method (SAM).  Buy when the price is beneath the "buy below price."  Sell when the price is near the "target price."


Above lessons is just a small part of what the book can offer you.  If you are committed to continuous learning, as I am, I would recommend you to also read the book yourself.

Happy learning!

Mumay


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How did you share your blessing this holiday season?

 It was in December several years ago when I saw one TV station aired a commercial showing an anonymous man helping a poor family pay for the hospital bills.  It struck me.  I felt the overwhelming joy of both the man who shared his blessings and the poor family who received the blessing.

Silently, I made this wish to be able to help exactly the same way, anonymously.  I wished to help someone who is in need secretly when I get rich.

It is also in December this year when something happened.  Someone very close to my heart needed my help.  Everything happened so fast and I ended up needing approximately Php 80,000 to pay for a hospital bill.   Never in my life have I experienced patiently waiting in a hospital hallway, trying to contact the doctors to request that we be allowed to pay the professional fee within one week as it is impossible for an ATM machine to dispense more than Php 20,000 for a single bank account in one day.  Thankfully, there are kind-hearted doctors - Dr. Ricardo Dizon (surgeon) and his wife Dr. Janice Dizon (pediatrician) who did not hesitate and wholeheartedly helped.

The whole experience humbled me, I came to realize that helping others does not require a certain degree of wealth.  I realized that anybody can help regardless of their financial standing.  I realized that helping doesn't require a big bank account, but a big heart.  Which could be the reason that not all wealthy people share their blessings - they are either too busy planning their holidays, too busy choosing between the latest iPhone, Samsung Galaxy phone, etc., or too busy dining at fancy restaurants.

I do not have a 6-digit monthly paycheck yet.  I still have loans and mortgages to pay.  But, I never hesitated to help.  How can I say no to the woman who took care and looked after me while mommy is not around?  How can I say no to the woman carried me to school whenever it's raining so my shoes won't get dirty?  How can I say no to the woman who devoted 26 years of selflessly serving our whole family?




The experience is painful.  It gave me a lot of realization.  I realized that I'm not prepared for emergencies like this, I realized that my love is bigger than my wants...

I may be broke this year.  But I consider my self as the happiest and wealthiest woman on earth this holiday season.  Thank you, thank you, thank you for the opportunity to share my blessings!

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Happy Second Year Anniversary, my Jondie!

Last night, I realized that there is this man whom I have known for exactly half of the number of years I existed on earth.  The man who gives me "kilig" moments and the same man who bears my PMS (a.k.a. pagtataray at pagsusungit before that time of the month) moments.


Photo taken during our prenuptial pictorial in year 2010


To my hubby, my best friend, my brother, my partner in crime, my pirate (who downloads tons of movies, ebooks, audiobooks, and mp3 files for me), my  shield, my armor, my bed of roses (with thorns. hehehe!), my protector, my shock absorber, my baby's one and only dad… Advance happy second year anniversary to you.  Hahaha!  I greeted you first! :-)

Pardon me for writing this in advance as you know, I will be a full-time mom and wife starting tomorrow and for the next 12 days.  I may no longer have enough time to ponder and to think of how grateful I am to have you in my life.

Since I have been doing this gratitude-giving project, I'm dedicating the next 24 grateful slots for your today:

253 of 1,000:  Thank you for your love from the day we met until now.

254 of 1,000:  Thank you for showing me and letting me feel how it is to love unconditionally, without pride or ego.

255 of 1,000:  Thank you for your enormous effort to be a good provider for our family.

256 of 1,000:  Thank you for loving and respecting the people I love.

257 of 1,000:  Thank you for taking charge of washing baby Marty's clothes from the day he was born until now.

258 of 1,000:  Thank you for always putting smile on my and Marty's face.  You never fail to make us laugh.

259 of 1,000:  Thank you for living a simple yet happy life with me. 

260 of 1,000:  Thank you for watching tagalog movies with me.  I appreciate how you keep yourself look interested and awake so I won't get offended.

261 of 1,000:  Thank you for helping me cook.

262 of 1,000:  Thank you for understanding my needs.

263 of 1,000:  Thank you for your washing the dishes at night while I'm taking care of Marty.

264 of 1,000:  Thank you for always trying your best to keep me happy.

265 of 1,000:  Thank you for buying me snacks I can bring to the office.  So I won't get hungry no matter how busy my day is.

266 of 1,000:  Thank you understanding whenever I have no time to text or call you when I'm too busy in the office.

267 of 1,000:  Thank you for being the best husband and best dad I and Marty could ever have.

268 of 1,000:  Thank you for making me and Marty your No. 1 priority.

269 of 1,000:  Thank you for making me feel that I'm the prettiest woman in the world.

270 of 1,000:  Thank you for the nightly foot massage.

271 of 1,000:  Thank you for reminding me that "giving up" is no longer part of your vocabulary no matter what challenges we encounter.

272 of 1,000:  Thank you for adjusting and for respecting most of my decisions.

273 of 1,000:  Thank you for surprising me always.

274 of 1,000:  Thank you for helping me raise baby Marty as a happy, healthy, loving, and God-fearing baby.

275 of 1,000:  Thank you for being my stylist and critic (though some are hurtful, at times.  hehehe!)

276 of 1,000:  Thank you for sharing life's roller coaster ride with me. 

I love you so much and I always will…. 


Love, 
Mumay

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The Lowly Sago Turns World-Class (Zagu's Success Story)


Released in November 2003 issue of eNegosyo Newspaper, this is one of my favorite stories because to this date I'm deeply inspired on how Genevieve Lim gained so much success at a young age.

I love her determination to succeed and her passion on what she is doing.  Sharing with you one inspiring business success story of a young lady I met 9 years ago, during my early years as a writer of a business newspaper ...



Photo of the actual write-up



The Lowly Sago Turns World-Class


When Genevieve Lim went back home from Canada, all she has in mind is to get a stable job in a multinational firm in the country.  Earning a degree in Good Science from British Columbia in Vancouver, Canada, Genevieve never expected that she would find better opportunities in the country other than being successfully employed.

Despite the ailing economy, her passion for good food and milk tea guided her towards the realization of an opportunity that only few entrepreneurial people like her would recognize.  With enough encouraging words from her father and great ideas in mind, Genevieve gave birth to Zagu - an innovation of the Filipinos' favorite drink especially during the hot season.


Good Quality Remains Intact

In April 1999, Zagu initially offered Taro and Honeydew flavors at its roadside outlet in A. Mabini, San Juan.  Promoting the product in the beginning has been difficult for Genevieve, since Filipinos are not used to pearl shakes.  However, luck seems to be on her sided that interviews for print, radio and television came pouring in giving her the opportunity to promote Zagu without spending a single centavo.

When Zagu outlets opened, Genevieve sets an allocation for free taste to sample the product to their target customers, which indeed, helped them introduce the product effectively.

Zagu's aggressive growth is very evident with their continuous nationwide and innovation in terms of packaging and formulation of new flavors.  "In any business, you have to keep innovating to be competitive,"  Genevieve said.  But besides continuous growth and innovation, maintaining good quality of products is very important that's why until now Zagu never changed the recipe or increased price of their products."


Years of Struggle and Success

Being in the business for almost five years, Zagu has gone through a lot - from economic slowdown to black propaganda to the existence of direct competition.  Genevieve faced all the challenges with confidence,  "If ever we'll go down, we'll go down fighting."  Genevieve studied the behavior and the buying pattern of her target market.  From there, she developed the Baby Z size, which provided Zagu at a cheaper price but with the same taste and quality. 

Today, Zagu has 150 outlets nationwide, where 50% of which are franchised outlets.  Genevieve started franchising on October 1999 through an outlet in Festival Mall, Alabang.  She said that one of the reasons that keep her high-spirited is the fulfillment that she feels whenever she sees how regular people become successful entrepreneurs through the business opportunities she provides them with.

Genevieve's dream of making Zagu a regular item in the market keeps her strong amidst all the hurdles she has to win over.  That's why instead of focusing in the local market alone, Zagu goes international with its outlets in Australia and Indonesia, through its appointed distributors and dealers.  Part of making Zagu a regular item in the market, Genevieve and her management team also offers business opportunity to canteen and restaurant owners, without the need of paying a franchise fee.  However, the suppliers should be purchased solely from Zagu to maintain quality and uniformity.


Dream Big and Pursue It

"If you believe in something, pursue it.  You have to be persistent and believe in yourself.  Don't underestimate an idea.  Pursue even the smallest idea,"  Genevieve shares to aspiring entrepreneurs. 

Genevieve's story simply proves that even the slightest and humblest idea is capable of bringing great success and fame.  As a famous saying goes, "Great things start from small beginnings."

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Gratitude-Giving Project

It all started with a post in Facebook while reading Rhonda Byrne's book, "The Magic".

The magical power of gratitude turns your life into gold!

- The Magic

On September 10, 2012, I started my gratitude-giving project. In a span of 365 days, I will be able to say thank you at least 1,000 times. The journey starts..........

1 of 1,000: Thank you that my son and hubby woke up early today. I got to see them smile and kiss before going to work.

2 of 1,000: Thank you for this beautiful, sunny day. It means going to work is easier + more earnings for our buko shake business.

3 of 1,000: Thank you for this wonderful bench at our shuttle service terminal. Just a perfect spot for reading while getting a dose of morning sunshine.

5 of 1,000: Thank you for the pleasant surprise this morning.

6 of 1,000: Thank you for my little boy's strong bones and courage, he is learning to stand very fast.

7 of 1,000: Thank you for the luxury of time that I have today.... Little by little, I'm finishing my back logs.

8 of 1,000: Thank you Lord for the special gift you are giving me everyday. For letting me see my dream car not less than 10 times a day... For bringing me closer to my dream car everyday....

9 of 1,000: Thank you for this wonderful experience of flying on a business-class and seeing Berlin for free. Yes! I so love this and I'm doing this again, next time, with my family.

10 of 1,000: Thank you for letting me sleep for 5 hours while on flight. I successfully avoided thinking of my koykoys... Mom said Marty behaved and slept soundly.

11 of 1,000: Thank you for this trip, I was able to have a little movie marathon which I have not been doing for the past few months.

12 of 1,000: Thank you for such an overwhelming experience. I get to have a feel on how it is to be have lots of $$$$$$$$$$$! The more I'm wanting to develop multiple streams of income so I can let my family enjoy the same experience.

13 of 1,000: Thank you for this amazing experience of seeing the other part of the world for free. Seeing and feeling a different culture, learning a lot of new things, and discovering new things about myself.

14 of 1,000: Thank you that all the TV shows are in German language, I get to watch CNN during my entire stay, opening my eyes on global issues. Something I often fail to get because of watching Cinema One always. Hahaha!

15 of 1,000: Thank you for the generosity and kindness of one of our organizers. He told me that he bought some sweets and apples for me. Though I can't get it anymore because I'm flying back to Manila this evening, I appreciate that he remembered buying me something.

16 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me some new friends from different parts of the world (Egypt, Serbia, Jordan, Tunisia, Sweden, Ireland, Poland, Saudi Arabia, Finland, Ukraine, Turkey, Belarus, Russia, Spain, Switzerland, and Germany). United nations!

17 of 1,000: Thank you for keeping me and my family safe while we are away.

18 of 1,000: Thank you for this gift of communication. I can easily keep in touch with my loved ones, while I'm away.

19 of 1,000: Thank you for letting me experience this cold weather. Making me appreciate the warm weather in the Philippines.

20 of 1,000: Thank you for making my workshop presentation successful. Making me more inspired and motivated to work even better and harder.

21 of 1,000: Thank you for the blessings our businesses are about to receive today.

22 of 1,000: Thank you for the humbling experience last night (Short story: On my way home, I rode on a trike with a lady driver. The lady driver is with her 2-year old son seated next to me. Seeing this scenario makes me feel fortunate that I have a decent job and that I need not bring my son along to earn a living).

23 of 1,000: Thank you for another fruitful and happy month with our son Marty who is celebrating his 9th month birthday today.

24 of 1,000: Thank you for hubby's wonderful gift. I spend time reading my favorite ebook every morning. A perfect way to start my day.

25 of 1,000: Thank you for the mentors that remind me to embrace abundance in all aspects of my life - career, health, money, family, love, happiness, relationships, etc.

26 of 1,000: Thank you for the gift of wisdom that allowed me to face challenges with tons of positivity.

27 of 1,000: Thank you for my son's intelligence that he knows how to play with the shape sorter I bought him last night.

28 of 1,000: Thank you for all the blessings I received few months ago that prepared me in solving the challenges of the present.

29 of 1,000: Thank you for the luxury of time that I'm starting to finish my tasks one by one.

30 of 1,000: Thank you for the overwhelming success of our project.

31 of 1,000: Thank you that my mom and dad are very much in good health condition that they can still manage to play with my 9-month old son.

32 of 1,000: Thank you for the rain yesterday, we were able to receive bountiful of blessings for our businesses.

33 of 1,000: Thank you, Thank you, Thank you... Thank you that my husband is not a perfect, but humble husband, who can do the dishes, cook, wash clothes, change Marty's diapers, and give me foot massage before going to sleep. I appreciate it more after having a conversation with an irresponsible married man this morning who is too arrogant in saying that cooking, doing the laundry, and taking care of their baby is his wife's tasks. Tsk, tsk, tsk... Reminded me how fortunate I am to have a humble life-long partner. Love you so much, Jun Rupisan! To all married men: Keep in mind that you married a life-long partner, not a maid. It will not make you less of a man if you cook food for your wife.

34 of 1,000: Thank you for having a wonderful father who heats water for me every morning.

35 of 1,000: Thank you for my loving mother who cooks my "baon" every morning.

36 of 1,000: Thank you for "Ate Lhet / Mama" who loves baby Marty, the way she loved me and Tintin. Unconditionally....

37 of 1,000: Thank you for the personal project I'm about to finish soon.

38 of 1,000: Thank you for the wonderful ebooks shared with me that adds to my wisdom day by day.

39 of 1,000: Thank you for Fridays! It thrills me knowing that tomorrow will be another family bonding time.

40 of 1,000: Thank you for the superb immune system. I remained cold and cough-free despite the weather changes these past few days.

41 of 1,000: Thank you, Thank you, Thank you... Thank you for Marty's strength and courage, he was able to freestand last night. Such a priceless moment for a mom like me. The sight of it last night simply took away all the stress from a long day at work.

42 of 1,000: Thank you for Marty's cute giggles whenever he see's me and his tita Stephanie Barias sing and dance "If you're happy and you know it."

43 of 1,000: Thank you for keeping our family close and at peace everyday.

44 of 1,000: Thank you for my teachers and mentors who taught me A,B,C and 1,2,3. Teachers who prepared me for a challenging life outside the four corners of a classroom. To all my teachers, thank you, thank you, thank you.

45 of 1,000: Thank you for the wonderful surprise this weekend.

46 of 1,000: Thank you for the money that will pay my debts. Looking forward to zero them out soon so I can focus more on investing.

47 of 1,000: Thank you for all the learning materials (a.k.a. ebooks) I receive from my friends and colleagues.

48 of 1,000: Thank you for the wonderful business ideas. Go go go! Multiple streams of income!

49 of 1,000: Thank you for our bonding and kulitan moments with baby Marty and daddy last night. Have lots of happy moments that keep me inspired today.

50 of 1,000: Thank you for the opportunity to learn how to cook when I got married. So happy baby Marty enjoyed the tomato soup I cooked for him yesterday.

51 of 1,000: Thank you, thank you, thank you that we are living in a humble neighborhood where cyber crime law is not an issue, where kids still play "tumbang-preso", "taguan", and "patintero", where people still use deep well, where ice candy is still kids' favorite snack, where computer and internet games has no place.... My baby Marty will surely grow up as a simple and grounded kid.

52 of 1,000: Thank you for the pain of giving I'm experiencing. It simply means that I have more reasons so strive harder to earn more and to give more.

53 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me this gift of motherhood where happiness is immeasurable and moments are priceless.

54 of 1,000:  Thank you for the strong bones that allow me to carry my little one with "chubby cheeks" - my baby Marty

55 of 1,000:  Thank you for the nice conversation with my colleagues yesterday who reminded me to appreciate the health I have now.

56 of 1,000:  Thank you for the magnificent outcome of my projects this week.

57 of 1,000:  Thank you for my PLAY jar that allows me to have guilt-free pleasures whenever I want to.

58 of 1,000:  Thank you for the money that will pay my debts in FULL.

59 of 1,000:  Thank you for the money that will pay for our family's out-of-the country trip.

60 of 1,000:  Thank you for teaching me how to say "Thank you" with all sincerity and feel this overwhelming happiness in my heart everytime I say these magic words.

61 0f 1,000:  Thank you for my billionaire sisters whom I share billionaire experiences with.  I really appreciate all the grateful stores we share.

62 of 1,000: Thank you for letting me experience how it is to have a sister - a confidante, a best friend. Thank you for letting me feel how it is to be called "Ate." Thank you that I have someone who loves me very, very, very over, over, over much, much, much.

63 of 1,000: Thank you for the "me" times. I get to appreciate myself and my relationships more.

64 of 1,000: Thank you for the bright, sunny day.

65 of 1,000: Thank you for the magnificent outcome of a personal project I'm working on.

66 of 1,000: Thank you for Marty's first tooth and second tooth... Mommy's little baby is really growing fast.

67 of 1,000: Thank you for my mother who patiently cooks my "baon" everyday.
Thank you for keeping her healthy always.

68 of 1,000: Thank you that I'm not a regretful person.  I don't dwell on "what ifs", "if onlys"...  I always look forward to a better and brighter future.

69 of 1,000:  Thank you for making me strong and determined, not relying on somebody else with my life and future.

70 of 1,000:  Thank you that I'm always busy.  Making me learn new amazing things, traverse horizons…

71 of 1,000: Thank you God for believing in me. For loving me without comparisons, without hesitations, without regrets... Thank you for loving me without looking back, without asking for anything in return... I may be silly at times, but you never get tired of loving me until I learn from those silly mistakes. I may lose time communicating with you, but you never forget to make me feel loved and cared for... Thank you, thank you, thank you...

72 of 1,000: Thank you for the insane moments. It helps me know when I am sane. Hehe!

73 of 1,000: Thank you for 30-minute productive time I had this morning. I was able to make plans that will determine the outcome of my goals.

74 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me that there is no stopping on learning. That I have lots of things to improve and develop...

75 of 1,000: Thank you for baby Marty's health. Though I miss the days when he was still in my tummy, it amazes me watching him grow up to be a healthy and happy kid.


Grateful for today - October 22, 2012




76 of 1,000: Thank you for 22 months (and counting) of happy and fulfilling married life.

77 of 1,000: Thank you for the unexpected money.

78 of 1,000: Thank you for the nice and comfy clothes and shoes - more than enough of what I need.

79 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me that generosity requires no financial status, no proper timing, no deserving individual; That helping others is a choice...

80 of 1,000: Thank you for the quality time with my boys - baby Marty and hubby

81 of 1,000: Thank you for the good night sleep. Had enough energy for today's activities.

82 of 1,000: Thank you for the people who takes good care of Marty whenever I and hubby is not around. I feel secured knowing that my baby is with the people I trust.

83 of 1,000: Thank you for the money that pays for all the needs of my baby.

84 of 1,000: Thank you for the money that allows our business to expand, conquer new territories and grab every opportunities that come our way.

85 of 1,000: Thank you for teaching me to be forgiving... For the heart that is slowly learning to let go of grudges.

86 of 1,000: Thank you for the book I just finished reading, ...
which signals me to start reading another one. Thank you, thank you, thank you...

87 of 1,000: Thank you for proving that when one door closes, another bigger and better looking door opens.

88 of 1,000: Thank you for instilling in me the gift of focusing on the good side of life by celebrating all the blessings that come my way through gratitude.

89 of 1,000: Thank you for my business partners who motivate me to aim higher and work harder...



Grateful for today - October 23, 2012



90 of 1,000:  Thank you for the critics.  Without them, life will never be this challenging.  Whenever I encounter them, I'm reminded to be better and happier than yesterday.

91 of 1,000:  Thank you for blessing me with wonderful friends who are there for me all throughout life's battles and victories.

92 of 1,000:  Thank you for such a painful sight this morning that fires up my burning desire to aim for financial freedom very soon….

93 of 1,000:  Thank you for reminding me to let go of my worries and focus my energy on what needs to be done and accomplished.

Grateful for today - October 24, 2012


94 of 1,000:  Thank you for the trainings, workshops and projects I handled in the past.  It will prepare me for bigger projects I will handle in the future.

95 of 1,000:  Thank you for reminding me about my dream to have a vacay in Europe with the whole family.

96 of 1,000:  Thank you for the magic cues I encounter everyday.

97 of 1,000:  Thank you for the warm weather.

98 of 1,000:  Thank you for making my baby Marty more smart, more healthy, and more loving everyday.

99 of 1,000:  Thank you for the task I just finished.  Allowing me to focus on remaining tasks I'm yet to finish.

100 of 1,000:  Thank you for the series of events that give me amazing experiences and learning that open new opportunities for my career, spiritual, and personal growth.

101 of 1,000:  Thank you for my shrinking problems, and for my growing blessings.

Grateful for today - October 25, 2012


102 of 1,000: Thank you Lord for reminding me that there is always rainbow after the rain. Thank you for reminding me that despite all the perplexities, life goes on.

103 of 1,000
Thank you for allowing me to influence others with my positivity. It is a blessing to influence others and comfort friends who are undergoing not-so-happy moments of their lives.

104 of 1,000: Thank you for the "kilig" moments whenever I see my dream car.

105 of 1,000: Thank you for the new mac book and new car next month. Hahaha!

106 of 1,000: Thank you for the excitement I feel whenever I think of all the things I want to accomplish.

107 of 1,000: Thank you for the rain, it will surely make our customers excited for our buko shake.

108 of 1,000: Thank you for the cold weather. We will surely save a lot on electricity tonight. No aircon tonight, baby Marty, ok? :-)

109 of 1,000: Thank you that little by little, I can hold and taste my dream... Finally, you're within my grasp!

110 of 1,000: Thank you for life's simple joys that keep me away from the seriousness of life. Yeah! Life is supposed to be fun!

Grateful for today - October 29, 2012




111 of 1,000: Thank you for the late night bonding time with baby Marty last night. Though tiring, I'm cherishing every second of it as I will surely miss it when he grows up. 

112 of 1,000: Thank you for the "busog" free lunch today… Happy birthday, Sir Joe! :-)

113 of 1,000: Thank you for all the creative juices and business ideas that comes out from my mind. And, thank you, thank you, thank you for the money that will make these business ideas possible.

114 of 1,000: Thank you keeping me strong amidst all life's challenges.

115 of 1,000: Thank you for the exciting travel and vacay next year. :-)

Grateful for today - October 30, 2012

116 of 1,000: Thank you for another day full of blessings, bright ideas, and wonderful time for thinking, planning and strategising.

117 of 1,000: Thank you for shining brightly, Mr. Sun! :-)

118 of 1,000: Thank you for this overwhelming feeling when helping other people.

119 of 1,000: Thank you for every inspiring days of my life.

120 of 1,000: Thank you for the happy evenings spent on kulitan with my baby Marty. 
Grateful for today - October 30, 2012
121 of 1,000: Thank you that I view life now in a different perspective:

Instead of saying, "I hope I'll never get broke again."
I say, "Thank you for all the money that pays for the wonderful items I bought and amazing services I availed."

Instead of saying, "I hope it will be possible."
I say, "Thank you that all things are possible, that life is limitless and free."

Instead of saying, "I hope my problems will end soon."
I say, "Thank you for a happy and peaceful life."

Instead of saying, "I hope my loved ones won't get sick."
I say, "Thank you for keeping my loved ones healthy always."

Instead of saying, "I hope there's not much traffic so I won't arrive late for work."
I say, "Thank you that I arrived early and safe at work."
Grateful for today - November 2, 2012
122 of 1,000: Thank you for a determined and courageous heart.

123 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me the will to get up despite all the failures.
124 of 1,000: Super BIG THANKS for the BIG OBSTACLES that motivate me to THINK BIG.... :-)
Grateful for today - November 5, 2012
125 of 1,000: Thank you for perfect day today! 

126 of 1,000: Thank you for the overwhelming progress of our projects. It's amazing how everything started from exchange of brilliant ideas to its close realization soon. 
Grateful for today - November 6, 2012
 
127 of 1,000: Thank you for the courage to do new things and to challenge what seems to be impossible.

128 of 1,000: Thank you for the bountiful blessings.
 
129 of 1,000: Thank you for the realization that happiness is a state of mind.
130 of 1,000: Thank you for the peace of mind.

131 of 1,000: Thank you for the special gift I received yesterday. Something that will remind me of a milestone in my career.
132 of 1,000: Thank you for the love of people around me. It overwhelms and inspires me to be better every day - not just for myself, but for them.
133 of 1,000: Thank you for the sun-shiny day. Buko shake rocks! 
134 of 1,000: Thank you for the learning experience last week. Learned so much as an entrepreneur.
135 of 1,000: Thank you that everything I encounter, read, hear, and watch seems to inspire me.
136 of 1,000: Thank you that I mustered the art of prosperity thinking, instead of poverty thinking. 
Grateful for today - November 7, 2012
 
137 of 1,000: Thank you for my eyes that see all the good in other people; eyes that see how beautiful the world is.

138 of 1,000: Thank you for my ears that listen to the heartwarming laughter of my son; ears that hear the beauty of music.

139 of 1,000: Thank you for my mouth that speaks how my loved ones are cared and loved; mouth that tells thank you for this beautiful life.

140 of 1,000: Thank you for my nose that helps me smell the fresh air; nose that smells the fragrance of beautiful flowers around us.

141 of 1,000: Thank you for the sense of touch that helps me feel the warmth embrace of my family; sense of touch that feels the kindness of the beautiful people I encounter every day.

Grateful for today - November 8, 2012


142 of 1,000: Thank you for the unexpected blessing just when I needed it most.

143 of 1,000: Thank you for the luxury of time to finish my activities today.

144 of 1,000: Thank you that my dream car always shows up to inspire and motivate me in moments of despair.

Grateful for today - November 9, 2012
 145 of 1,000: Thank you that I'm surrounded with people who inspire me.

146 of 1,000: Thank you for this amazing life.

147 of 1,000: Thank you for the happy memories that make my life colorful and more exciting. Looking forward to having more and more of happy memories with the people I love.
Grateful for today - November 13, 2012

148 of 1,000: Thank you that "fear of change" is not that name of my game; for the realization that embracing change is like opening a new book, conversing with a stranger, and seeing a new place.

149 of 1,000: Thank you for the realization that there is no such thing as financial freedom and security unless you veer away from being an
employee (regardless of the position, salary grade, and tenure).

150 of 1,000: Thank you for the new opportunities yet to be explored.

151 of 1,000: Thank you, simply, for something really painful yet awakening that I learned just recently.
Grateful for today - November 14, 2012
 
152 of 1,000: Thank you for the inspiration, just when I'm at the brink of giving up.

153 of 1,000: Thank you for the time I spent everyday with my loved ones, despite our busy schedule.

154 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me that when I'm down, there's no other way but up.

155 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me a creative husband who can put to paper all the ideas I have in mind.

156 of 1,000: Thank you for the privilege to learn new things.

157 of 1,000: Thank you for the opportunity to inspire and bless other people's lives.

158 of 1,000: Thank you for the vacant seat at the shuttle service terminal this morning, had an opportunity to read and to write some important activities for the day. Thank you, thank you, thank you...

Grateful for today - November 15, 2012

159 of 1,000:  Thank you for the money that I will receive today.

160 of 1,000:  Thank you for the audio books that I listen to whenever I hear noises of negativity around me.

161 of 1,000:  Thank you for the gift of influencing other people, especially my loved ones, to stay calm, positive and grateful despite all the adversities.

162 of 1,000:  Thank you for the wonderful work experiences in the past that taught me valuable lessons on handling my finances well and on being an entrepreneur.

163 of 1,000:  Thank you for making me an introvert; It means I can make use of my time alone in reading, listening to, and learning new things instead of gossiping about people.

164 of 1,000:  Thank you for the early challenges that our goal tracker project faced, making us pause, think, and re-design our plans.


Grateful for today - November 20, 2012

165 of 1,000: Thank you that my son recuperated fast from sickness. He's now back to being a happy and healthy baby.

166 of 1,000: Thank you for the excellent service of people ...
who manage to arrange everything for me.

165 of 1,000: Thank you for all the surprises - wonderful or awful, they always make my life more challenging and exciting.

166 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me that every problem has a solution and that all experiences are opportunity to learn.

167 of 1,000: Thank you for the unconditional love of my parents.

168 of 1,000: Thank you blessing me with more that what I need, giving me the opportunity to share and help other people.

169 of 1,000: Thank you for all the accomplished tasks and those I'm yet to accomplish.



Grateful for today - November 21, 2012



170 of 1,000: Thank you for another month of love, laughter, and happiness with my hubby. Couldn't ask for anything more but continuous positivity and happiness on my family life.

Grateful for today - November 22, 2012



171 of 1,000: Thank you for a husband who never complains even if I give him a strawberry shortcake blanket at night. ♥ ♥ ♥



Grateful for today - November 22, 2012


172 of 1,000: Thank you for the amazing opportunities that will allow me to retire young and rich.

173 of 1,000: Thank you for the wonderful idea to creatively help others in my... own little way.

174 of 1,000: Thank you for making me a multi-tasker and a morning person, I get to accomplish a lot of things early.

175 of 1,000: Thank you that I'm wealthy with happiness and abundance in my heart.

176 of 1,000: Thank you for allowing me to realize that wealth does not always equates happiness; especially if it isn't shared.

177 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me a productive hobby.

178 of 1,000: Thank you for this burning desire to be an ontrepreneur and e-publisher... Thank you, thank you, thank you...




Grateful for today - November 23, 2012


 
179 of 1,000: Thank you that trials and challenges do not affect my happy disposition in life.

180 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me a persistent business partner who reminds me not to lose sight of our goal.

181 of 1,000: Thank you that people recognize my gratitude-giving project in a positive way; I'm so grateful with last night's conversation with my hubby Jun Rupisan when he asked me, "What will be your happy thoughts for tomorrow (pertaining to my almost daily grateful confessions)? Baka lumipad ka na niyan (reminding me of Peter Pan who said that thinking happy thoughts will make us fly). ♥

182 of 1,000: Thank you for the time that will allow me to attend seminars that will help me gain new learning.

183 of 1,000: Thank you for the positive outcome of a yearly discussion with a colleague. This year's discussion became so easy. :-)

184 of 1,000: Thank you for the cold weather; Making my fast-approaching holiday vacay more exciting. :-)



Grateful for today - November 26, 2012

 


185 of 1,000: Thank you that baby Marty grows up so fast.

186 of 1,000: Thank you for hubby's gift. I can now go full speed on my other sources of income.




187 of 1,000: Thank you for the competition, it challenges us to get better each day.

188 of 1,000: Thank you that we are nearing the finalization of our project. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

189 of 1,000: Thank you that my mother, Mama Lhet and Ate Jo are healthy and strong enough to take care of baby Marty.

190 of 1,000: Thank you for the overflowing blessings. ♥




Grateful for today - November 27, 2012





191 of 1,000: Thank you for our speech and presentation mentor who effectively teaches us to improve and hone our skills.

192 of 1,000: Thank you for the delicious food that fill...-in our empty stomach; Easier to think and learn with a full stomach. Haha!

193 of 1,000: Thank you for new leader who help us get back to the glory days.

194 of 1,000: Thank you that baby Marty behaved well while Mama Lhet is not around.

195 of 1,000: Thank you for my understanding hubby who understands why I cannot sleep yet because I still have few activities that I need to accomplish before calling it a day.



Grateful for today - November 29, 2012



196 of 1,000: Thank you for the privilege of not just learning to be a great speaker, but also of of gaining new friends.

197 of 1,000: Thank you for letting us meet Henzie Yunez... who enlightened us there is a more noble reason for being a vegetarian aside from health reasons.

198 of 1,000: Thank you for the improvements on our presentation skills - Marife Cortado Fresco, Rhonel Garcia, Nancy Salamanca Romano, during the past three days.

199 of 1,000: Thank you for giving us a senior citizen as a guest speaker. Such a realization that learning knows no age.

200 of 1,000: Thank you, God, for bringing me safe home with my loved ones. What an overwhelming reward for today's hard work. Thank you, thank you, Thank you.

201 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me not to be extravagant on a lot of things - clothing, gadgets, etc.

202 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me of the difference between a good debt and a bad debt just at the right time when it is tempting to have a bad debt.



Grateful for today - December 3, 2012




203 of 1,000: Thank you for that I'm not a slave of money. Money doesn't control how I treat other people and how I communicated with my family.

204 of 1,000: Thank you that this... painful realization motivates me to get better, not relying or depending on others help.

205 of 1,000: Thank you for the bench at the shuttle service terminal. I got to do productive things during my spare 30 minutes.

206 of 1,000: Thank you for keeping my baby Marty safe always.

207 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me a baby who takes away all my sadness and pain with just one smile. ♥ ♥ ♥

208 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me that giving requires no amount of wealth or financial status. Reminds me of a taxi driver who gives shelter and feeds streetchildren.

209 of 1,000: Thank you that sharing our blessing immediately gives back wonderful opportunities for us.

210 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me abundance in character and love for it is far more important than all the riches of greedy people (who do not share their blessings).




Grateful for today - December 4, 2012


211 of 1,000: Thank you for surrounding me with people who care and listen. People who asks, "What can I do to help?" and "Are you ok?" Thank you, thank you, thank you.

212 of 1...,000: Thank you for reminding me that tears clear up my vision to see better opportunities and to focus on my goal.

213 of 1,000: Thank you that I am in any way different from these people who are hurting me and my relationships.





Grateful for today - December 5, 2012



214 of 1,000: Thank you for the blessings and for the opportunity to share my blessings.

215 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me that "What goes up, goes down. And what goes down, goes up."




Grateful for today - December 6, 2012



216 of 1,000: Thank you for keeping us strong regardless of all the challenges. I'm close to complaining, ranting, and being stressed out.... And yet there are a lot of reminders that tell me to remain grateful no matter what.

217 of 1,000: Thank you that since I started this gratitude-giving project, all I see are "Thank yous" everywhere. It simply means that my energy is focused more on being grateful.

218 of 1,000: Thank you that baby Marty behaves well, as if he knows what is happening.

219 of 1,000: Thank you for keeping our family safe and happy no matter what.



Grateful for today - December 7, 2012


220 of 1,000: Thank you for the strength that helps me keep hanging on despite of everything.

221 of 1,000: Thank you for the kind heart that is compassionate and attentive to th...e needs of others.

222 of 1,000: Thank you that there are no trials that can shatter my relationships.

223 of 1,000: Thank you for my job that blesses those who are in need.

224 of 1,000: Thank you for the amazing outcome of our busy yet interactive second week of December.

225 of 1,000: Thank you for baby Marty's safety even is Mommy and Daddy is not on his side always.




Grateful for today - December 10, 2012


226 of 1,000: Thank you for all the positive and negative feedback I received today.

227 of 1,000: Thank you that when plan a fails, I still have plan B, plan C, plan D, plan E, etc...

228 of 1,000: Thank you for the opportunity to help other people.




Grateful for today - December 12, 2012



229 of 1,000: Thank you for preparing me, for instilling in me the essence of having a positive and grateful attitude; I never thought that it will be my weapon at this struggling and painful point of my life.

230 of 1,000: Thank you for the happy and light moments I spend with my colleagues, it allows me to rest from all the stress and gives me time to think and to make better ways to overcome obstacles.

231 of 1,000: Thank you for the continuous downpour of blessings.

232 of 1,000: Thank you for the realization that we are all just humans and that each one of us face challenges.

233 of 1,000: Thank you for giving me this competitive spirit.

234 of 1,000: Thank you for another year of love and happiness with our parents who are celebrating their 31st wedding anniversary today.




Grateful for today - December 14, 2012



235 of 1,000: Thank you for the endless reasons to be grateful.

236 of 1,000: Thank you for the healthy and productive relationship I have with the people I work with.


237 of 1,000: Thank you for the people I meet and friends I gain because of my gratitude-giving project. Thank you, thank you, thank you for giving these kind of relationships that are worthy to be treasured.

238 of 1,000: Thank you that I have an understanding husband who never said a thing when I went to bed at almost 12MN for two consecutive nights because of being too engrossed with work and work-related activities.

239 of 1,000: Thank you for the bountiful of blessings I'm about to receive tonight.



Grateful for today - December 17, 2012


240 of 1,000: Thank you there are people with good hearts. Who have empathy for those who are in need. Truly, water is almost always thicker than blood.

241 of 1,000: Thank you for the free buffet lunch or dinner for two at Acasi Coffee Shop I won during the Year-end raffle. Yipee!!! Hubby Jun Rupisan saved a lot for our 2nd year wed...ding anniversary date. Hahaha!

242 of 1,000: Thank you for reminding me to be thankful. That regardless of the situation I am in, life will be different the next day. Thank you for keeping me strong for myself and for my loved ones.

243 of 1,000: Thank you for preparing me on this life's challenges. I now understood why I started this gratitude-giving project out of nowhere few months ago.

244 of 1,000: Thank you for healing my son. For keeping him safe and healthy always.

245 of 1,000: Thank you for the very hot weather this December. It's ka-ching, ka-ching, ka-ching for our buko shake. Yipee!



Grateful for today - December 19, 2012




246 of 1,000: Thank you that for every offer of help I receive, I feel blessed and loved.

247 of 1,000: Thank you that I feel challenged, neither punished nor abandoned.
 

248 of 1,000: Thank you for the delicious (and free!) lunch c/o Chris Mitchum Ganancial! Your wife is a gem! Sarap ng kaldereta! :-) Happy birthday!

249 of 1,000: Thank you for the 2013 organizers and planners I received. There is no reason for me to be disorganized.

250 of 1,000: Thank you for the kind people (strangers, colleagues, friends) I encounter each day.

251 of 1,000: Thank you for all the ways and means available just to make things work for me emotionally, mentally, and financially. I feel blessed!

252 of 1,000: Thank you for the movie downloaded by hubby. It helped me relaxed lasts night. Not a typical Tagalog love story with happy ending. Ganda! (The Mistress)


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